Terry,

No balloon popped here; I started with that assumption not because I thought it was correct, but because if you start with the most charitable assumption it puts you in a position to see how F4F is broken even when everybody has the best intentions.

One you've started there you can see how it's even more broken in the real world, where not everybody does.

By the way, I saw the post that you put on your board for me. Thank you so much; there has been a pretty huge outpouring of support in the past two days and I am deeply grateful.

Also, on that note, I've read some of your stuff as well; you're a great writer, so you've got my 'follow' as well.

Best wishes to you; I look forward to keeping appraised. Also, I applaud your choice to prioritize your sanity and start cutting out drama. It's a hard decision to make but in the end it's the most honest one that most of us can do.

J